First Time Poster And Closet TGirl Admirer

[alonzostrickland]

This Is The First Time I've EVER Even Considered To Mention My Infatuation With TGirls. I'm A 36 Year Old Black Male And It's Not Considered "Manly" To Long For A Woman With "Extra Parts". I Don't Understand If I'm The One With A Problem Or If It's The World Thats Screwing Everything And Everyone Up. I'm Just Glad I've Found A Place That I Can Finally Feel Like I'm Part Of Society. Thank You Bob!

[Bob]

You're welcome. I'm believe that most, if not all question our manliness or sexual orientation etc. at some point. I remember years back telling myself it was wrong and so forth. Then one can get caught up with trying to label himself with Am I gay, bi straight?

Eventually I decided to enjoy what I like and not to analyze it. I don't announce my situation to everyone, but I don't actively try to hide it either. More importantly I have no shame nor question my preferences. I just go with it.

Back in the day there were no sites like this (no internet period) and I had no male friends to discuss this with,. So I just muddled through on my own. Now things are much more open. One of my goals for this site is what we are doing right here. So welcome to BTG and the forum.

In time you will probably come to terms with this as well. And just a note of encouragement: you would probably be surprised at how many of your friends have feelings like yours but are afraid to say anything for the same reasons you have.

I know some well known male (straight) porn stars who like tgirls, but keep it under wraps through fear of it hurting their careers.

[yogi]

Welcome to the club! I too, like you, Bob and a couple of my friends, felt the same way.

Hmmmm? Do we have a classification? Gay? Straight? Bi? Who knows and honestly who cares. I never really considered myself a category type of person. I'm happy and feel like a weight has been lifted (sorry for the cliche ).

I moved here to LA about a year and a half ago, and I've never been happier. I opened up to my family (all Females made it easier) letting them know my preference. I even brought my mother, sister, and her partner to a TGirl show. My Mom even tipped one of the dancers. I introduced them to my friends - Bob, and some of the ladies.

It did take awhile to understand or come to grips with it, and stop telling myself it was wrong. I too, like Bob said above, "I have no shame, nor question my preferences" either, and it's made me a lot happier person. I don't know the situation or circumstances that you have. So I can't give any advice or words of wisdom, but I do know that Bob's Forum has answered a lot of my questions in ways that other avenues probably wouldn't be able to do. So if you have any questions feel free to ask (just read the FAQ's first) I found a lot of answers that I had.

[Shadow1]

Gay, Bi, Straight... Here we go again.......

Shadow has an answer! After long thought, and a few pints of Guiness I had a revelation. Now hold on to your emotions...

We can all agree that the girls we admire here on Bob'sTgirls are girls, right? With me so far? They are not men in women's clothing they are girls. They dress, live, and act as girl all the time Does a Gay man find a girl sexually stimulating? Not usually. Bi men? Well sometimes, so part 1. Do you find men attractive? If not you are neither Gay or Bi. And if you do find men attractive, no big deal I guess. It's all up to you. Ok now here is Shadow's big revelation: If we like a girl... we are straight. Does a penis make a girl a guy? I think it has been well established on this site and others that no, a penis doesn't make a girl a guy. So my advice to all the confussed Transsexual woman enthusiasts out there in internet land is don't get wrapped around the axle about it, and enjoy yourself.

[Bob]

That's a new way of putting it - very good.

[anonymous1]

I've been looking at this stuff for a while and I still don't want anyone to know. How people react not my attraction to t-girls, is what's the problem. Fact is I like what I like and t-girls do it for me.

[Ben in LA]

I've been looking at this stuff for a while and I still don't want anyone to know. How people react not my attraction to t-girls, is what's the problem. Fact is I like what I like and t-girls do it for me.
Same here, but I've dropped hints here and there.

When I take pictures with some of the models, I do show them to others that don't know my "secret"...but I don't tell them the truth about the girls. I do have feelings about what others' opinions of me are. So far, the subject hasn't come up, but I think I'll be able to handle it when it does.

My parents don't know...and they've made it clear they don't approve of the "lifestyle". When I showed them the picture I took with Betty at last year's Queen Universe pageant, all they could say is how beautiful she looked. That's what matters to me; they saw me with a beautiful young woman, not a T-girl. That's why I didn't mind Bob posting the picture of Caroline (Nicole) and me.

[anonymous1]

I only told one friend I like looking a t-girls. She's very open minded so it was no big deal but I think she was surprised. It was a huge relief to share my secret with someone though.

I think a lot of guys would find the girls on this site attractive. I would love to go a pageant sometime and see them strut their stuff. It must be amazing.

[Ben in LA]

I would love to go a pageant sometime and see them strut their stuff. It must be amazing.
It is.

I went to my first pageant last year (Queen Universe 2007), and I had a blast. Any guy that didn't think that at least one of the contestants was attractive has to be an idiot. There were some very gorgeous young ladies both in and watching the show.

November 11th is the next Queen Universe pageant. Maybe you should check it out! :idea:

[anonymous1]

I would if I was in the neighborhood. They don't have too many events like that where I am. I just hope Bob goes and takes plenty of pictures!

[Bob]

Actually I won't be there. Perhaps Kevin will take pics of the pageant for us.